Using an Online Dating Coach to Find Love, Happiness. and Even Find Your Soulmate!
In this age of technology, where you find yourself faced with more time-saving devices than ever – and are simultaneously busier than ever – it is gratifying to know that you have new resources available to help you find love… happiness… and even find your Soulmate.
Internet Dating is gaining in popularity and no longer holds the stigma it did even five years ago. Online dating and matchmaking services have become highly regarded as reliable ways to take the guesswork out of dating. For those who have concentrated heavily on their careers – only to find that with success comes less time for dating – online dating services have become an invaluable tool in helping singles meet like-minded others.
Want to Find your Soulmate? The Online Dating Coach to the Rescue!
As an added benefit to the convenience of online dating, clients can also receive the services of an Online Dating Coach or “Love Coach” as we’re sometimes referred to by our clients. As a professional guide and consultant, a Dating Coach is now in demand by singles who are looking for guidance. Many professionals understand how important it is to describe the best parts of their personalities in writing – and this is where a Dating Coach can really help you shine!
An Online Dating Coach is an expert and will create an outstanding Online Dating Profile for you. There aren’t many Online Dating Coaches in the world, but those who choose this profession are often talented – and even masterful – at creating a dating profile. The coach’s talent will be crucial to the client who has a lot to offer in a relationship, but who just isn’t skillful at putting his or her ideas down on paper.
An Online Dating Coach will typically conduct an initial telephone interview with you, asking you lots of very interesting questions. During the first coaching session, your dating coach will take a look at your personality. By asking you a series of personal and revealing questions and paying attention to how you reply, your coach will use this information to create a dating strategy just for you.
Be honest with your dating coach in expressing what you’re looking for. In addition to describing your personality in your dating profile, your coach will help you be realistic in your search for a relationship. If you’re an average-looking guy collecting unemployment benefits with three young kids at home, it’s unlikely you’ll be dating a world-famous supermodel – no matter how much you think you might want to.
But on the other hand, your coach will also help you achieve the best results possible. Often an average-looking man or woman can be made to look and sound much better than they might sound on their own, just by highlighting and accentuating their best qualities. Your coach will also help you write Letters of Introduction. This will benefit you in several ways – for one, your response rate to your dating matches will almost certainly increase, and you’ll have access to more attractive partners.
As an emerging new category of personal coaching, the role of the Online Dating Coach will almost certainly expand over the next five to ten years. As Online Dating grows in popularity, so will the role of the Dating Coach in serving the needs of clients worldwide who flock to dating sites in search of their Soulmates!
By: The Online Dating Coach
Internet Dating is gaining in popularity and no longer holds the stigma it did even five years ago. Online dating and matchmaking services have become highly regarded as reliable ways to take the guesswork out of dating. For those who have concentrated heavily on their careers – only to find that with success comes less time for dating – online dating services have become an invaluable tool in helping singles meet like-minded others.
Want to Find your Soulmate? The Online Dating Coach to the Rescue!
As an added benefit to the convenience of online dating, clients can also receive the services of an Online Dating Coach or “Love Coach” as we’re sometimes referred to by our clients. As a professional guide and consultant, a Dating Coach is now in demand by singles who are looking for guidance. Many professionals understand how important it is to describe the best parts of their personalities in writing – and this is where a Dating Coach can really help you shine!
An Online Dating Coach is an expert and will create an outstanding Online Dating Profile for you. There aren’t many Online Dating Coaches in the world, but those who choose this profession are often talented – and even masterful – at creating a dating profile. The coach’s talent will be crucial to the client who has a lot to offer in a relationship, but who just isn’t skillful at putting his or her ideas down on paper.
An Online Dating Coach will typically conduct an initial telephone interview with you, asking you lots of very interesting questions. During the first coaching session, your dating coach will take a look at your personality. By asking you a series of personal and revealing questions and paying attention to how you reply, your coach will use this information to create a dating strategy just for you.
Be honest with your dating coach in expressing what you’re looking for. In addition to describing your personality in your dating profile, your coach will help you be realistic in your search for a relationship. If you’re an average-looking guy collecting unemployment benefits with three young kids at home, it’s unlikely you’ll be dating a world-famous supermodel – no matter how much you think you might want to.
But on the other hand, your coach will also help you achieve the best results possible. Often an average-looking man or woman can be made to look and sound much better than they might sound on their own, just by highlighting and accentuating their best qualities. Your coach will also help you write Letters of Introduction. This will benefit you in several ways – for one, your response rate to your dating matches will almost certainly increase, and you’ll have access to more attractive partners.
As an emerging new category of personal coaching, the role of the Online Dating Coach will almost certainly expand over the next five to ten years. As Online Dating grows in popularity, so will the role of the Dating Coach in serving the needs of clients worldwide who flock to dating sites in search of their Soulmates!
By: The Online Dating Coach
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How to Tell a Partner if You Have Herpes
Look for logical opportunities to bring up the subject. This way it seems more natural, there’s not time to get nervous, and you’re not making it into a bigger deal than it is. With more and more singles talking about ’safe sex’ and AIDS, these opportunities come up fairly frequently. You might even be surprised to learn that the person you’ve been worried about telling, has been worried about telling you.
The following opening statements represent a variety of non-threatening ways to prompt discussion. They are not intended to be regarded as scripts.Words can be clumsy and awkward. Choose your own words and your own way of telling a partner. You’ll find the way that’s most comfortable for you.
“When two people get along as well as we do, I think we owe it to each other to be totally honest. I’d like to talk about our sexual histories.”
“I really enjoy being with you, and I’m glad that we’re becoming more intimate. I think it’s important that we talk about sex. Can we talk now?”
“We’re both responsible adults who want to do what’s best for each other and ourselves. Let’s talk about safe sex.”
“I really feel that I can trust you, and I’d like to tell you something very personal. Last year, I found out that I had contracted genital herpes.”
“I have something I’d like to discuss with you. Have you ever had a cold sore or fever blister? The reason I ask is that cold sores and fever blisters are caused by a type of virus. Herpes simplex virus. I have the virus. Only instead of getting a sore on my mouth, I get one in my genital area.”
* “I want to talk with you about something that’s important to me. Have you ever had a cold sore or fever blister? A type of virus causes cold sores and fever blisters. I have this virus. Only, instead of getting the sores near my mouth, I get them in my genital area.”
“I really feel I can trust you and I want to tell you something very personal. Last year, I found out I have genital herpes. It’s not as serious as it sounds. Can I tell you about it?”
“I really like you and enjoy being with you, and I want to get closer to you. Let’s talk about safer sex.”
Try not to be melodramatic. This is not a confession or a lecture, simply the sharing of information between two people. Avoid loaded words like ‘awful’, ‘disgusting’, or ‘incurable’. Which statement would you rather hear? “I have this horrible, incurable, sexually transmitted disease, and I could give it to you,” Or: “I found out two years ago that I have herpes. Luckily it’s both treatable and manageable. Could we talk about what this means for us?”
Many people practise by telling a friend first. It builds up your confidence and gives you a feel for the kind of questions others might ask. Plus, the more people you tell, the easier it gets.
Another good idea is to role play the situation with a friend who already knows your situation. But don’t let them always play the understanding partner. It’s important to prepare for a variety of situations – not just the easy ones. In addition, convincing another person can help convince you.
If you do not know which time is best for you to bring up the subject, you can check the articel
When to tell a partner?
If you date some one with herpes,it’s much easier. Just tell your partner you have herpes.
By: Justin
The following opening statements represent a variety of non-threatening ways to prompt discussion. They are not intended to be regarded as scripts.Words can be clumsy and awkward. Choose your own words and your own way of telling a partner. You’ll find the way that’s most comfortable for you.
“When two people get along as well as we do, I think we owe it to each other to be totally honest. I’d like to talk about our sexual histories.”
“I really enjoy being with you, and I’m glad that we’re becoming more intimate. I think it’s important that we talk about sex. Can we talk now?”
“We’re both responsible adults who want to do what’s best for each other and ourselves. Let’s talk about safe sex.”
“I really feel that I can trust you, and I’d like to tell you something very personal. Last year, I found out that I had contracted genital herpes.”
“I have something I’d like to discuss with you. Have you ever had a cold sore or fever blister? The reason I ask is that cold sores and fever blisters are caused by a type of virus. Herpes simplex virus. I have the virus. Only instead of getting a sore on my mouth, I get one in my genital area.”
* “I want to talk with you about something that’s important to me. Have you ever had a cold sore or fever blister? A type of virus causes cold sores and fever blisters. I have this virus. Only, instead of getting the sores near my mouth, I get them in my genital area.”
“I really feel I can trust you and I want to tell you something very personal. Last year, I found out I have genital herpes. It’s not as serious as it sounds. Can I tell you about it?”
“I really like you and enjoy being with you, and I want to get closer to you. Let’s talk about safer sex.”
Try not to be melodramatic. This is not a confession or a lecture, simply the sharing of information between two people. Avoid loaded words like ‘awful’, ‘disgusting’, or ‘incurable’. Which statement would you rather hear? “I have this horrible, incurable, sexually transmitted disease, and I could give it to you,” Or: “I found out two years ago that I have herpes. Luckily it’s both treatable and manageable. Could we talk about what this means for us?”
Many people practise by telling a friend first. It builds up your confidence and gives you a feel for the kind of questions others might ask. Plus, the more people you tell, the easier it gets.
Another good idea is to role play the situation with a friend who already knows your situation. But don’t let them always play the understanding partner. It’s important to prepare for a variety of situations – not just the easy ones. In addition, convincing another person can help convince you.
If you do not know which time is best for you to bring up the subject, you can check the articel
When to tell a partner?
If you date some one with herpes,it’s much easier. Just tell your partner you have herpes.
By: Justin
How to Get Rid of Cold Sores, Cold Sores Symptoms
Cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus, which is believed to lie dormant in certain nerve cells of the body until it is activated by stress, anxiety, a cold, or excessive exposure to the sun. The sores last anywhere from 7 to 14 days. Although some use the terms “cold sore” and “canker sore” interchangeably, they are different.
The herpes simplex virus infects around 90 percent of the US population and although many people never experience cold sore outbreaks, it can make life unbearable for the many people who do whenever they suffer an attack. However, by taking a few simple precautions you may be able to prevent cold sores from occurring so regularly and when they do there severity is often reduced and one of these habits is simply to change your eating habits.
The first cold sore symptoms noticed by many sufferers is a tingling sensation, which then blisters. The blister is filled with a colorless liquid and usually bursts after a few days, weeping the liquid and leaving an open sore that is both unpleasant to see and painful. However, the sore crusts over after a few days, and when the scab finally disappears the new skin underneath is scar free.
Cold sores are best treated as early as possible. Believe it or not, there is a lot of talk about gelatin free yoghurt being one of the best home remedies. Many people also advice to use Vaseline to cut down on the cracking and the painful dryness that comes along with having a cold sore. Lemon balm is also very efficient as it can dramatically speed up the healing time.
The other method for tackling cold sores when they appear is through natural remedies, some of which date back to Roman times. One popular treatment is to take L-Lysine supplements which can act to reduce the severity of attacks and the application of ice to the infected area when the tingling sensation appears is also popular.
One popular home remedy that is available in just about every home is the application of ice to the affected area. As soon as the tingling sensation is felt, an icepack should be applied for up to thirty minutes. It is probable that the cooling action of the ice prevents the virus from replicating, minimizing the effects of the outbreak, and some people claim it prevents the blister from appearing at all.
Apply acyclovir (take for instance over-the-counter Zovirax cold sore cream) on the cold sore immediately upon discovery of the symptoms. Do this for 5 times daily over the next 5 days. It would help to reduce the duration of the outbreak.
By: John mathew
The herpes simplex virus infects around 90 percent of the US population and although many people never experience cold sore outbreaks, it can make life unbearable for the many people who do whenever they suffer an attack. However, by taking a few simple precautions you may be able to prevent cold sores from occurring so regularly and when they do there severity is often reduced and one of these habits is simply to change your eating habits.
The first cold sore symptoms noticed by many sufferers is a tingling sensation, which then blisters. The blister is filled with a colorless liquid and usually bursts after a few days, weeping the liquid and leaving an open sore that is both unpleasant to see and painful. However, the sore crusts over after a few days, and when the scab finally disappears the new skin underneath is scar free.
Cold sores are best treated as early as possible. Believe it or not, there is a lot of talk about gelatin free yoghurt being one of the best home remedies. Many people also advice to use Vaseline to cut down on the cracking and the painful dryness that comes along with having a cold sore. Lemon balm is also very efficient as it can dramatically speed up the healing time.
The other method for tackling cold sores when they appear is through natural remedies, some of which date back to Roman times. One popular treatment is to take L-Lysine supplements which can act to reduce the severity of attacks and the application of ice to the infected area when the tingling sensation appears is also popular.
One popular home remedy that is available in just about every home is the application of ice to the affected area. As soon as the tingling sensation is felt, an icepack should be applied for up to thirty minutes. It is probable that the cooling action of the ice prevents the virus from replicating, minimizing the effects of the outbreak, and some people claim it prevents the blister from appearing at all.
Apply acyclovir (take for instance over-the-counter Zovirax cold sore cream) on the cold sore immediately upon discovery of the symptoms. Do this for 5 times daily over the next 5 days. It would help to reduce the duration of the outbreak.
By: John mathew
Scientifically Tested Olive Leaf Herb is Known to Kill Every Virus and Germ Known to Man
What is the worst case scenario for the bird flu or just how bad could it get? A question I have always wanted the answer to. Well history is always the best teacher and we have an excellent historical teacher from 1918. The answer there is the bird flu of 1918, and that teacher is foreboding. Called the aquatic bird flu that actually started in China (sound familiar) then somehow got into Kansas not Europe. Isn’t that interesting? It started among US Cavalry horses then moved to American troopers assigned to those mounts, stationed in Kansas. These Cavalry soldiers were shipped to the battle fields of Europe to take part in the fighting. Some of those soldiers arrived infected with the virus. This flu circulated throughout the densely packed cities of Europe then made its way back to America and did the same there. In a little over a years time it had run its course and 40 to 50 million people were dead.
In 1918 the big cities like London had a million people. Today our mega cities have 10 plus million people and a very fast transport system. Any new bird flu virus can travel in infected people across the world in a matter of days.
Why can’t modern medicine help us?
Until the bird flu virus of today mutates to its human infecting form, no scientific steps can be taken to create a serum. Only then can science develop the serum and begin to make large batches. This takes considerable amounts of time and fertile chicken eggs and there are not many around. Under optimal conditions modern science takes at least 6 months, minimum. Remember I just said above, it only takes days to move the virus across the world. So even with all the pharmaceutical companies around the world creating this serum only a small part of the world’s population would be protected. I hate to make this sound worse, but the virus can also mutate into other human infecting forms and other serums must be developed.
The Herbal Solution to a Bird Flu Epidemic
You can see how bad it can get and how little modern medicine can do. There has really been little progress since 1918. So what can be done to protect yourself and your family? Here is the answer that has been around for ages. Olive leaf tincture is the answer to bird flu and all other germs and virus infections. But do not take my word for it, here is some of the history of this very powerful herb and what modern science found when they looked at it.
History of Olive Leaf as Herbal Medicine
I personally believe that God was referring to the olive tree in Ezekiel 47:12, God spoke of a tree: “The fruit thereof shall be for meat, and the leaf thereof for medicine.”
The ancient Egyptians may have been the first to put the olive leaf to practical use. They regarded it as a symbol of heavenly power, and in keeping with that belief, they extracted its oil and used it to mummify their kings. The Egyptians and later cultures also found, and there is documentation, that the olive leaf was a great herbal medicine for the relief of fevers (sounds like viral infections to me).
The knowledge of the medicinal properties of the tree (Olea europaea) date back to the early 1800’s where it was used in liquid form as a very effective treatment for malarial infections. According to the 1854 Pharmaceutical Journal of Provincial Transactions, pages 353 and 354(a), the doctors at that time stated that the properties of the tree, Olea europaea, deserved more extensive investigation.
In the early 1900’s, a bitter compound was found in the leaves of certain olive trees called “Oleuropein.” This compound was determined to be part of the olive tree’s powerful disease resistant structure. In 1962, European researchers recorded that oleuropein had the ability to lower blood pressure in animals, increase blood flow in the coronary arteries, relieve arrhythmias and prevent intestinal muscle spasms. A Dutch researcher found the chemical responsible for olive leafs healing power was elenolic acid which has strong antiviral, bacterial and antiparasitic properties.
Modern Medicine Finds That Olive Leaf is a Powerful Medicine
In the late 60’s and early 70’s, The Upjohn Companies’ test studies were published by The American Society for Microbiology in regards to a new multifunctional monoterpene which they had isolated from various parts of the olive tree. The compound was called calcium elenolate, a crystalline salt form of elenolic acid. When they tested this compound it was found to be virucidal against all viruses for which it was tested. The compound acted effectively at low concentrations without any harmful influence on host cell mechanisms. It was also found to be extremely safe and nontoxic, even at high doses. While it worked extremely well in-vitro, it was unsuccessful in-vitro. When injected into the blood stream, the compound bound quickly to the blood serum protein and rendered itself ineffective. They were unable to overcome this problem and terminated their research. During this same period, other companies had interest in the compound and performed various tests, but also lost interest. Then in 1990, interest was renewed and the process of bringing the remarkable product Olive Leaf Extract to market began.
A safety study on calcium elenolate was laboratory tested with animals and published by The Upjohn Company in 1970. The study concluded that even in doses several hundred times higher than recommended, no toxic or other adverse side effects appeared..
Recent Australian studies show that liquid olive leaf extract made from fresh olive leaves has up to 40 times more antioxidants than even the very best extra virgin olive oils. This same fresh Olive Leaf Extract also has 5 times more antioxidant power than Vitamin C, 28 times more antioxidant power than Noni juices and 6 times more than Goji juices.
The Power of Olive Leaves
Effective against fever and helpful for nervous tension; great immune booster and viral/bacterial killer. Researchers credit a number of unique properties possessed by the olive leaf compound for the broad killing power: an ability to interfere with critical amino acid production essential for viruses, an ability to contain viral infection and/or spread by inactivating viruses or by preventing virus shedding, budding or assembly at the cell membrane, and the ability to directly penetrate infected cells and stop viral replication in the case of retroviruses. It is able to neutralize the production of reverse transcriptase and protease (an enzyme found in retroviruses that enable the virus to make DNA from viral RNA). These enzymes are essential for a retrovirus, such as HIV, to alter the RNA of a healthy cell. It can stimulate phagocytosis, an immune system response in which immune cells ingest harmful microorganisms and foreign matter.
Summary of conditions for which olive leaf extract acts as a microbial and anti-viral agent
AIDS Amoebiasis Anthrax Athlete’s Foot Bladder Infection Campylobacter Chicken Pox Chlamydia Cholera Common Cold Cold Sore (herpes simplex) Cryptosporidiosis Cytomegalovirus Diarrheal Disease Diphtheria Ear Infection Ebola Sudan Virus E. Coli Epstein-Barr Virus Flu (influenza) Gastric Ulcers (from H. Pylori) Genital Herpes/Warts Giardia Gonorrhea Group B Strep Hantavirus Hepatitis A, B, C Herpes Zoster (shingles) Lyme Disease Malaria Measles Meningitis (bacterial) Meningitis (viral) Mononucleosis Pinworms Pneumonia (bacterial) Pneumonia (viral) Polio Pork Tapeworm Rabies Rheumatic Fever Ringworm Retrovirus infection Roundworm Rotavirus Infection RSV Staphylococcal Food Poisoning Strep Throat Syphilis Tuberculosis Thrush Toxic Shock Syndrome Trichinosis Typhoid Fever Urinary Tract Infections Vaginal Yeast Infections
Die-Off Syndrome
There are no negative side effects with Olive leaf extract but it does have a healthy side effect called the Herxheimer or “Die-Off” effect. Here is what takes place during a die-off effect. In the body there are microbes or viruses that somehow manage to evade the body’s immune system. Upon exposure to olive leaf tincture these microbes and viruses are destroyed which is a good thing for the person. After the microbe virus death, their cell-wall proteins are absorbed through the weakened mucous membrane, which surrounds them. The body recognizes these as toxins and begins its natural processes to get rid of them. If present in too large of numbers for the eliminative system to handle, the individual may develop symptoms that include headaches, swelling in the mouth, throat, sinuses, and lymphatic’s, rashes, fatigue, diarrhea, muscle/joint achiness, or other flu-like symptoms. The severity will vary from person to person, depending on the extent of their condition, the state of their immune and eliminatory systems, and how much olive leaf extract is being consumed.
The die off effect is desirable as it indicates that the body is being cleared of these hazardous microbes and viruses. Anyone who experiences these unpleasant effects generally feels fabulously well afterwards many times better than ever before.
If you feel the effects and you would like to minimize them, there are some easy things you can do. Many physicians recommend that an individual consume plenty of water in between usages of the product. Water keeps the lymphatic system and the kidneys functioning properly and more capable of handling the excess toxins. Another way to reduce the effects is to cut back on the dose of tincture that you are taking or go off it completely for a day or two before slowly increasing the dose once again. It can take anywhere from a couple of days to a week to completely rid the body of the excess toxins.
Why Olive Leaf Tincture?
A good question, and the answer makes common sense. Tinctures are made from the ground herb combined with pure grain alcohol. The alcohol acts as a solvent extracting the active healing ingredients out of the herb. The alcohol is then pressed out of the herb, all the valuable active herbal ingredients are now in the alcohol, the herbal pulp is discarded. This process can be done with one or a combination of herbs. In an alcohol tincture form the herb(s) are easily assimilated by the body to immediately begin the healing process such as killing germs or viruses.
Dosage
There is no official dose for taking olive leaf tincture even though it has been around for thousands of years of use and testing. The most popular amount for a maintenance dose is 2 droppers full twice daily on an empty stomach before meals. For conditions such as the common cold, flu, sinus infections, and basic respiratory tract infections, the dose is 2 droppers full every 2 hours. For acute infections such as sore throat, swollen glands, fever, etc., the recommendation is 3 droppers full every 2 hours.
Safety of Olive Leaf Tincture
From all indications over the thousands of years of use by professional and nonprofessional people; Olive leaf tincture appears to be an extremely safe supplement that can effectively aid the body in improving immune function and fighting infection by various microbes and viruses. To my knowledge and through my research I have not found one single negative case involving the use of olive leaf tincture.
Shelf Life
Alcohol acts as a preservative and if stored in a cool, dark place, tinctures can last indefinitely. I have herbal tinctures that have lasted 15 years and were just as strong as when I first used them. As I said above, avoid heat, sunlight, and exposure to air, and your tinctures will keep their “just picked” freshness for as long as you own them.
Caution:
Don’t take olive leaf with antibiotics as they can be inactivated by olive leaf.
Don’t take olive leaf with Warfarin (Coumadin) this drug can cause internal bleeding.
Olive leaf naturally relaxes blood vessels and capillaries which could increase Coumadin’s side effect.
References:
The main reference for the information in this article was taken from Doctor Jack Ritchason’s Book “Olive Leaf Extract” Woodland publishing, Pleasant Grove, Utah. 1999
Nature’s multi-functional force against infections and cardiovascular disease? by Amanda Jackson Ph.D.
Positive Health Publications LTD 1994-2002
Handbook of Medicinal Herbs, by James A. Duke, Pub. CRP Second Edition 2007
Positive Health Publications LTD 1994-2002
Handbook of Medicinal Herbs, by James A. Duke, Pub. CRP Second Edition 2007
By: Paul Blake
In 1918 the big cities like London had a million people. Today our mega cities have 10 plus million people and a very fast transport system. Any new bird flu virus can travel in infected people across the world in a matter of days.
Why can’t modern medicine help us?
Until the bird flu virus of today mutates to its human infecting form, no scientific steps can be taken to create a serum. Only then can science develop the serum and begin to make large batches. This takes considerable amounts of time and fertile chicken eggs and there are not many around. Under optimal conditions modern science takes at least 6 months, minimum. Remember I just said above, it only takes days to move the virus across the world. So even with all the pharmaceutical companies around the world creating this serum only a small part of the world’s population would be protected. I hate to make this sound worse, but the virus can also mutate into other human infecting forms and other serums must be developed.
The Herbal Solution to a Bird Flu Epidemic
You can see how bad it can get and how little modern medicine can do. There has really been little progress since 1918. So what can be done to protect yourself and your family? Here is the answer that has been around for ages. Olive leaf tincture is the answer to bird flu and all other germs and virus infections. But do not take my word for it, here is some of the history of this very powerful herb and what modern science found when they looked at it.
History of Olive Leaf as Herbal Medicine
I personally believe that God was referring to the olive tree in Ezekiel 47:12, God spoke of a tree: “The fruit thereof shall be for meat, and the leaf thereof for medicine.”
The ancient Egyptians may have been the first to put the olive leaf to practical use. They regarded it as a symbol of heavenly power, and in keeping with that belief, they extracted its oil and used it to mummify their kings. The Egyptians and later cultures also found, and there is documentation, that the olive leaf was a great herbal medicine for the relief of fevers (sounds like viral infections to me).
The knowledge of the medicinal properties of the tree (Olea europaea) date back to the early 1800’s where it was used in liquid form as a very effective treatment for malarial infections. According to the 1854 Pharmaceutical Journal of Provincial Transactions, pages 353 and 354(a), the doctors at that time stated that the properties of the tree, Olea europaea, deserved more extensive investigation.
In the early 1900’s, a bitter compound was found in the leaves of certain olive trees called “Oleuropein.” This compound was determined to be part of the olive tree’s powerful disease resistant structure. In 1962, European researchers recorded that oleuropein had the ability to lower blood pressure in animals, increase blood flow in the coronary arteries, relieve arrhythmias and prevent intestinal muscle spasms. A Dutch researcher found the chemical responsible for olive leafs healing power was elenolic acid which has strong antiviral, bacterial and antiparasitic properties.
Modern Medicine Finds That Olive Leaf is a Powerful Medicine
In the late 60’s and early 70’s, The Upjohn Companies’ test studies were published by The American Society for Microbiology in regards to a new multifunctional monoterpene which they had isolated from various parts of the olive tree. The compound was called calcium elenolate, a crystalline salt form of elenolic acid. When they tested this compound it was found to be virucidal against all viruses for which it was tested. The compound acted effectively at low concentrations without any harmful influence on host cell mechanisms. It was also found to be extremely safe and nontoxic, even at high doses. While it worked extremely well in-vitro, it was unsuccessful in-vitro. When injected into the blood stream, the compound bound quickly to the blood serum protein and rendered itself ineffective. They were unable to overcome this problem and terminated their research. During this same period, other companies had interest in the compound and performed various tests, but also lost interest. Then in 1990, interest was renewed and the process of bringing the remarkable product Olive Leaf Extract to market began.
A safety study on calcium elenolate was laboratory tested with animals and published by The Upjohn Company in 1970. The study concluded that even in doses several hundred times higher than recommended, no toxic or other adverse side effects appeared..
Recent Australian studies show that liquid olive leaf extract made from fresh olive leaves has up to 40 times more antioxidants than even the very best extra virgin olive oils. This same fresh Olive Leaf Extract also has 5 times more antioxidant power than Vitamin C, 28 times more antioxidant power than Noni juices and 6 times more than Goji juices.
The Power of Olive Leaves
Effective against fever and helpful for nervous tension; great immune booster and viral/bacterial killer. Researchers credit a number of unique properties possessed by the olive leaf compound for the broad killing power: an ability to interfere with critical amino acid production essential for viruses, an ability to contain viral infection and/or spread by inactivating viruses or by preventing virus shedding, budding or assembly at the cell membrane, and the ability to directly penetrate infected cells and stop viral replication in the case of retroviruses. It is able to neutralize the production of reverse transcriptase and protease (an enzyme found in retroviruses that enable the virus to make DNA from viral RNA). These enzymes are essential for a retrovirus, such as HIV, to alter the RNA of a healthy cell. It can stimulate phagocytosis, an immune system response in which immune cells ingest harmful microorganisms and foreign matter.
Summary of conditions for which olive leaf extract acts as a microbial and anti-viral agent
AIDS Amoebiasis Anthrax Athlete’s Foot Bladder Infection Campylobacter Chicken Pox Chlamydia Cholera Common Cold Cold Sore (herpes simplex) Cryptosporidiosis Cytomegalovirus Diarrheal Disease Diphtheria Ear Infection Ebola Sudan Virus E. Coli Epstein-Barr Virus Flu (influenza) Gastric Ulcers (from H. Pylori) Genital Herpes/Warts Giardia Gonorrhea Group B Strep Hantavirus Hepatitis A, B, C Herpes Zoster (shingles) Lyme Disease Malaria Measles Meningitis (bacterial) Meningitis (viral) Mononucleosis Pinworms Pneumonia (bacterial) Pneumonia (viral) Polio Pork Tapeworm Rabies Rheumatic Fever Ringworm Retrovirus infection Roundworm Rotavirus Infection RSV Staphylococcal Food Poisoning Strep Throat Syphilis Tuberculosis Thrush Toxic Shock Syndrome Trichinosis Typhoid Fever Urinary Tract Infections Vaginal Yeast Infections
Die-Off Syndrome
There are no negative side effects with Olive leaf extract but it does have a healthy side effect called the Herxheimer or “Die-Off” effect. Here is what takes place during a die-off effect. In the body there are microbes or viruses that somehow manage to evade the body’s immune system. Upon exposure to olive leaf tincture these microbes and viruses are destroyed which is a good thing for the person. After the microbe virus death, their cell-wall proteins are absorbed through the weakened mucous membrane, which surrounds them. The body recognizes these as toxins and begins its natural processes to get rid of them. If present in too large of numbers for the eliminative system to handle, the individual may develop symptoms that include headaches, swelling in the mouth, throat, sinuses, and lymphatic’s, rashes, fatigue, diarrhea, muscle/joint achiness, or other flu-like symptoms. The severity will vary from person to person, depending on the extent of their condition, the state of their immune and eliminatory systems, and how much olive leaf extract is being consumed.
The die off effect is desirable as it indicates that the body is being cleared of these hazardous microbes and viruses. Anyone who experiences these unpleasant effects generally feels fabulously well afterwards many times better than ever before.
If you feel the effects and you would like to minimize them, there are some easy things you can do. Many physicians recommend that an individual consume plenty of water in between usages of the product. Water keeps the lymphatic system and the kidneys functioning properly and more capable of handling the excess toxins. Another way to reduce the effects is to cut back on the dose of tincture that you are taking or go off it completely for a day or two before slowly increasing the dose once again. It can take anywhere from a couple of days to a week to completely rid the body of the excess toxins.
Why Olive Leaf Tincture?
A good question, and the answer makes common sense. Tinctures are made from the ground herb combined with pure grain alcohol. The alcohol acts as a solvent extracting the active healing ingredients out of the herb. The alcohol is then pressed out of the herb, all the valuable active herbal ingredients are now in the alcohol, the herbal pulp is discarded. This process can be done with one or a combination of herbs. In an alcohol tincture form the herb(s) are easily assimilated by the body to immediately begin the healing process such as killing germs or viruses.
Dosage
There is no official dose for taking olive leaf tincture even though it has been around for thousands of years of use and testing. The most popular amount for a maintenance dose is 2 droppers full twice daily on an empty stomach before meals. For conditions such as the common cold, flu, sinus infections, and basic respiratory tract infections, the dose is 2 droppers full every 2 hours. For acute infections such as sore throat, swollen glands, fever, etc., the recommendation is 3 droppers full every 2 hours.
Safety of Olive Leaf Tincture
From all indications over the thousands of years of use by professional and nonprofessional people; Olive leaf tincture appears to be an extremely safe supplement that can effectively aid the body in improving immune function and fighting infection by various microbes and viruses. To my knowledge and through my research I have not found one single negative case involving the use of olive leaf tincture.
Shelf Life
Alcohol acts as a preservative and if stored in a cool, dark place, tinctures can last indefinitely. I have herbal tinctures that have lasted 15 years and were just as strong as when I first used them. As I said above, avoid heat, sunlight, and exposure to air, and your tinctures will keep their “just picked” freshness for as long as you own them.
Caution:
Don’t take olive leaf with antibiotics as they can be inactivated by olive leaf.
Don’t take olive leaf with Warfarin (Coumadin) this drug can cause internal bleeding.
Olive leaf naturally relaxes blood vessels and capillaries which could increase Coumadin’s side effect.
References:
The main reference for the information in this article was taken from Doctor Jack Ritchason’s Book “Olive Leaf Extract” Woodland publishing, Pleasant Grove, Utah. 1999
Nature’s multi-functional force against infections and cardiovascular disease? by Amanda Jackson Ph.D.
Positive Health Publications LTD 1994-2002
Handbook of Medicinal Herbs, by James A. Duke, Pub. CRP Second Edition 2007
Positive Health Publications LTD 1994-2002
Handbook of Medicinal Herbs, by James A. Duke, Pub. CRP Second Edition 2007
By: Paul Blake
Living With Herpes
For most people, diagnosis of genital herpes (Herpes simplex virus 2 or HSV2) is a shock. For others, the diagnosis can be a confirmation of suspicions they had about their own health or their partners’ behavior. Seeking to answer the question of how the patient contracted the condition often leads to a search for responsibility and self-recrimination. Living with herpes is something that initially May take some psychological adjustment for some patients. It does not mean the end of your sex life or that you will need to remain unmarried for the rest of your life.
First HSV1 and HSV2, better known as the virus cold sores, are just two of a group of seven that viruses are known to infect humans. Others include the varicella zoster virus, commonly known as chickenpox and shingles. Diagnosis of infection is HSV1 or 2 can be established with a blood test known as Western Blot test, upside of this test is that the patient who has no active lesions be diagnosed through May the presence of antibodies against the strain is. Accuracy of this test is only 90-95%, depending on the laboratory in question. Some cases have occurred where patients were diagnosed with either a false positive or false negatives. The more accurate diagnosis with a doctor taking precedence over a new injury, obtaining stem the base of the lesion and a laboratory increasingly a viral culture thereof. Viable extracting a stem of the lesion can be very painful for the patient.
HSV2 traditionally involved in genital infections with the virus dormant in the nerve sacred at the base of the spine during periods when the patient is not damage. HSV1 traditionally infections around the mouth and nose and lies dormant in the trigeminal nerve in the neck during the active phase of the disease. Current epidemiological studies across the Western world indicate the incidence of HSV2 in the order of one to eight people, representing 12% of the population. Only one in five of them with antibodies have been diagnosed.
In real terms, in a room containing forty people, five HSV2 but only one known to have. A further three of the five May had a single symptom once or twice. That would have seemed so insignificant that they thought it was a button, infected hair follicle or a boil. The last one in five is someone who has never had a symptom and May never do so. For this patient, and three other patients undiagnosed, accusations of infection (usually followed by accusations of infidelity) a partner are often against accusations and disbelief. An estimate of the global population with antibodies HSV1 and the ability to infect others is around 90%. Of these, approximately 45% are symptomatic. If you have been diagnosed with the infection is, it is very possible that you contract someone who has no idea that they have themselves.
People have received messages on safe sex and modify some of their practices, arguing that only penetrative sex requires safe sex. Some specialists in sexual health now report that half of new diagnoses HSV in clinics have been confirmed as microbiologically HSV1 on the genitals, in the community, it is now estimated that 20% of all herpes infections in the genitals are in fact HSV1. On the plus side for the patient infected when the virus HSV does not live in his home environment ideal (ie infection HSV1 genitals, infection oral HSV2 ) Infections have been documented to be generally less severe and occur less frequently.
Another mistake many patients, is assuming that they are not contagious during a dormant or asymptomatic phase of their illness. Studies have shown that even when a couple who are clinically discordant (ie is a positive and the other is negative) to use what is known as the gold standard of treatment to reduce risks to partners, the rate of transmission in a period of 12 months is still 10%. The management of the fight against infection involves the use of condoms during all sexual encounters and complete abstinence from sex during the symptomatic phase positive partner. Interestingly, experts sexual health report that if a partner has remained negative for 10 years in a clinical discordant partnership, it is very unlikely that they contracted the disease after that date. It is speculated that they have some immunity / protection either natural or acquired that science has not yet been able to identify.
A true primary infection HSV2 can last up to ten days, it is a systemic response, where all the glands in the body are swollen, as if the patient has the flu, and the obvious genital burning sensation, itching, pain with urination or complete inability to urinate. Many patients are they having a primary infection, but the severity of symptoms indicates the doctor is in fact a repetition. In these cases, the patient’s primary infection would have been asymptomatic, but for some reason, they have become obsolete and their immune system is not responding as it did when they were first infected. These and recurrences of HSV2 are typically around five days in duration, unless there is a serious gap in the immune system. In this case, the treating physician must refer the patient for further tests.
Because HSV transmission requires skin-to-skin contact and viral shedding occur, usually an infection of HSV2 is specifically limited to the genitals. Affected areas include the vulva and lips of women and penis and scrotum in men, because of relations with penetration are very localized. Where a patient was infected with HSV1 on the genitals, the area is usually larger and wider distribution gallbladder because of oral sex-skin contact with the skin covering a wider area of the genitals. The two viruses May be effectively treated with antiviral drugs.
As indicated above, each virus has its ideal home environment. For patients infected with HSV1 on the genitals, it means infections are generally less virulent and, in some cases May that never happen again once or twice in their lives. For patients infected with the HSV2 on the genitals, the incidence of recurrence can vary widely. Recurrence are linked to the health of the immune system. May Triggers include stress, poor diet, lack of sleep, sunburn and some women, their menstrual cycle. During the first year of infection, the number of recurrences May range from one to twelve, with an average of four to five. Over the years, the immune system responds better, the patient learns what will trigger a repetition and generally tries to avoid it. Eventually, most patients can be as little as one to two rehearsals a year. Also, the patient learns to better recognize the symptoms of an impending relapse, they are able to administer antiviral drugs sooner. This can reduce the length and duration of the attack, and perhaps prevent injuries altogether. It is important for the patient to remember that despite avoiding a repetition, they are still shedding the virus and they are still potentially infectious to their partners.
Maintenance doses of antivirals May be taken daily to reduce the number of recurrences. Up to 50% of these patients on therapy to a lack of recurrence in a period of 12 months. When this treatment is interrupted, patients almost certainly experience a recurrence within three weeks. This is usually followed by a reduction in the annual number of recurrences. There is a small number of patients who demanded the continuation of this treatment with antiviral drugs continuously since they first became available, more than 15 years earlier in the forms. As reduce recidivism in the frequency and severity, most patients eventually overcome their diagnosis. For some, this is never the case, the sexual health report that doctors should refer between 10-20% of their patients for more psychological counselling. This is despite the fact that they have much experience with the disease counselling needed for this diagnosis.
What is important, regardless of the many patients seem to cope with the initial diagnosis, is to ensure access to information. This can be obtained easily and anonymously www.herpes.com, www.herpeshelp.com or www.genitalherpes.com these sites contain updates of facts and links to other sites. These provide names and contact details of support groups, local clinics and specialists in sexual health. Although HSV2 is a lifelong infection, with the right management and care, it is not necessarily symptomatic and should not prevent the patient to enjoy love and long-lasting, secure relationship.
By: Jade Simpson
First HSV1 and HSV2, better known as the virus cold sores, are just two of a group of seven that viruses are known to infect humans. Others include the varicella zoster virus, commonly known as chickenpox and shingles. Diagnosis of infection is HSV1 or 2 can be established with a blood test known as Western Blot test, upside of this test is that the patient who has no active lesions be diagnosed through May the presence of antibodies against the strain is. Accuracy of this test is only 90-95%, depending on the laboratory in question. Some cases have occurred where patients were diagnosed with either a false positive or false negatives. The more accurate diagnosis with a doctor taking precedence over a new injury, obtaining stem the base of the lesion and a laboratory increasingly a viral culture thereof. Viable extracting a stem of the lesion can be very painful for the patient.
HSV2 traditionally involved in genital infections with the virus dormant in the nerve sacred at the base of the spine during periods when the patient is not damage. HSV1 traditionally infections around the mouth and nose and lies dormant in the trigeminal nerve in the neck during the active phase of the disease. Current epidemiological studies across the Western world indicate the incidence of HSV2 in the order of one to eight people, representing 12% of the population. Only one in five of them with antibodies have been diagnosed.
In real terms, in a room containing forty people, five HSV2 but only one known to have. A further three of the five May had a single symptom once or twice. That would have seemed so insignificant that they thought it was a button, infected hair follicle or a boil. The last one in five is someone who has never had a symptom and May never do so. For this patient, and three other patients undiagnosed, accusations of infection (usually followed by accusations of infidelity) a partner are often against accusations and disbelief. An estimate of the global population with antibodies HSV1 and the ability to infect others is around 90%. Of these, approximately 45% are symptomatic. If you have been diagnosed with the infection is, it is very possible that you contract someone who has no idea that they have themselves.
People have received messages on safe sex and modify some of their practices, arguing that only penetrative sex requires safe sex. Some specialists in sexual health now report that half of new diagnoses HSV in clinics have been confirmed as microbiologically HSV1 on the genitals, in the community, it is now estimated that 20% of all herpes infections in the genitals are in fact HSV1. On the plus side for the patient infected when the virus HSV does not live in his home environment ideal (ie infection HSV1 genitals, infection oral HSV2 ) Infections have been documented to be generally less severe and occur less frequently.
Another mistake many patients, is assuming that they are not contagious during a dormant or asymptomatic phase of their illness. Studies have shown that even when a couple who are clinically discordant (ie is a positive and the other is negative) to use what is known as the gold standard of treatment to reduce risks to partners, the rate of transmission in a period of 12 months is still 10%. The management of the fight against infection involves the use of condoms during all sexual encounters and complete abstinence from sex during the symptomatic phase positive partner. Interestingly, experts sexual health report that if a partner has remained negative for 10 years in a clinical discordant partnership, it is very unlikely that they contracted the disease after that date. It is speculated that they have some immunity / protection either natural or acquired that science has not yet been able to identify.
A true primary infection HSV2 can last up to ten days, it is a systemic response, where all the glands in the body are swollen, as if the patient has the flu, and the obvious genital burning sensation, itching, pain with urination or complete inability to urinate. Many patients are they having a primary infection, but the severity of symptoms indicates the doctor is in fact a repetition. In these cases, the patient’s primary infection would have been asymptomatic, but for some reason, they have become obsolete and their immune system is not responding as it did when they were first infected. These and recurrences of HSV2 are typically around five days in duration, unless there is a serious gap in the immune system. In this case, the treating physician must refer the patient for further tests.
Because HSV transmission requires skin-to-skin contact and viral shedding occur, usually an infection of HSV2 is specifically limited to the genitals. Affected areas include the vulva and lips of women and penis and scrotum in men, because of relations with penetration are very localized. Where a patient was infected with HSV1 on the genitals, the area is usually larger and wider distribution gallbladder because of oral sex-skin contact with the skin covering a wider area of the genitals. The two viruses May be effectively treated with antiviral drugs.
As indicated above, each virus has its ideal home environment. For patients infected with HSV1 on the genitals, it means infections are generally less virulent and, in some cases May that never happen again once or twice in their lives. For patients infected with the HSV2 on the genitals, the incidence of recurrence can vary widely. Recurrence are linked to the health of the immune system. May Triggers include stress, poor diet, lack of sleep, sunburn and some women, their menstrual cycle. During the first year of infection, the number of recurrences May range from one to twelve, with an average of four to five. Over the years, the immune system responds better, the patient learns what will trigger a repetition and generally tries to avoid it. Eventually, most patients can be as little as one to two rehearsals a year. Also, the patient learns to better recognize the symptoms of an impending relapse, they are able to administer antiviral drugs sooner. This can reduce the length and duration of the attack, and perhaps prevent injuries altogether. It is important for the patient to remember that despite avoiding a repetition, they are still shedding the virus and they are still potentially infectious to their partners.
Maintenance doses of antivirals May be taken daily to reduce the number of recurrences. Up to 50% of these patients on therapy to a lack of recurrence in a period of 12 months. When this treatment is interrupted, patients almost certainly experience a recurrence within three weeks. This is usually followed by a reduction in the annual number of recurrences. There is a small number of patients who demanded the continuation of this treatment with antiviral drugs continuously since they first became available, more than 15 years earlier in the forms. As reduce recidivism in the frequency and severity, most patients eventually overcome their diagnosis. For some, this is never the case, the sexual health report that doctors should refer between 10-20% of their patients for more psychological counselling. This is despite the fact that they have much experience with the disease counselling needed for this diagnosis.
What is important, regardless of the many patients seem to cope with the initial diagnosis, is to ensure access to information. This can be obtained easily and anonymously www.herpes.com, www.herpeshelp.com or www.genitalherpes.com these sites contain updates of facts and links to other sites. These provide names and contact details of support groups, local clinics and specialists in sexual health. Although HSV2 is a lifelong infection, with the right management and care, it is not necessarily symptomatic and should not prevent the patient to enjoy love and long-lasting, secure relationship.
By: Jade Simpson
Kissing On The First Date Or More?
So how do you know when more than kissing on the first date is acceptable? Is it when you fall madly in love the first time you see the person or is it because of something else?
Kissing on the first date has been a taboo subject for decades way before any of our time. Today dating is much different and kissing on the first date is not as big a deal as it was several years ago. But, the question remains how do you know if kissing or more should be a part of the first date? Here are a few things that you should take into consideration when thinking about how far to go on your date.
First are you female or male?
If you are a male this is a no brainer, a lot of men would go all the way before the first date if that were possible. Men do not worry about what you are going to think of them tomorrow or how society may frown upon their sexual excursions. Men do not worry so much about the technicalities of dating. Women on the other hand have an entire set of criteria that they consider before they will even touch a man. They are thinking about how it will look, what others will say and will he be respectful tomorrow. Men and women are wired completely different and in order to decide what is right for you, it takes an examination of a few inner beliefs.
What makes you feel good?
Yes, sex makes you feel good, but that is not what we mean here. Think the situation through before acting upon your feelings. How will you feel about the decision tomorrow, next week or next year? Will you regret the fact, be embarrassed about it or feel good about it. This is the leading problem with those individuals that engage in sex on the first date. They often end up regretting it because they did not consider the consequences or think it all the way through. So think it through and just do not jump in the sack for fifteen minutes of fame.
Who is this person?
Another consideration in kissing on the first date and/or sex, is who are you with? Do you know this person and do you really like this person? Is this someone that you want to spend time with or are you looking for something else? Do you need someone to listen to you, or love you and instead of seeking the right thing you turn to sex. This is a very common issue, people are looking for something and are not sure what it is, so they turn to physical satisfaction. If this person is not someone that you can see yourself with past tonight, you may want to take the relationship a little slower.
Go for it
Of course most people are going to say that kissing on the first date is completely different than sex on the first date. Since there is not a dating code or law it is hard to know whether or not if you should. A simple kiss shouldnt be a big deal, right? Well, to most people it is not a big deal, but there are those that take it very seriously. Everyone is different so what may be a minor kiss, may be a true life changing event to them, so this is something that you have to decide. Most people would agree, however that if you are attracted, feel a connection and are interested go for a kiss on the first date. If not and you are not sure about the person, play it by ear, go out with them again to see where it leads.
Do what is right for you.
Do not get too wound up in what others think or what is right for them. Everyone is different and just because someone has an opinion does not make it right. So you do what feels right for you and quit worrying about everyone else. Have a positive dating relationship and consider yourself, no one else!
By: Lee Blackspur
About the Author:
Kissing on the first date has been a taboo subject for decades way before any of our time. Today dating is much different and kissing on the first date is not as big a deal as it was several years ago. But, the question remains how do you know if kissing or more should be a part of the first date? Here are a few things that you should take into consideration when thinking about how far to go on your date.
First are you female or male?
If you are a male this is a no brainer, a lot of men would go all the way before the first date if that were possible. Men do not worry about what you are going to think of them tomorrow or how society may frown upon their sexual excursions. Men do not worry so much about the technicalities of dating. Women on the other hand have an entire set of criteria that they consider before they will even touch a man. They are thinking about how it will look, what others will say and will he be respectful tomorrow. Men and women are wired completely different and in order to decide what is right for you, it takes an examination of a few inner beliefs.
What makes you feel good?
Yes, sex makes you feel good, but that is not what we mean here. Think the situation through before acting upon your feelings. How will you feel about the decision tomorrow, next week or next year? Will you regret the fact, be embarrassed about it or feel good about it. This is the leading problem with those individuals that engage in sex on the first date. They often end up regretting it because they did not consider the consequences or think it all the way through. So think it through and just do not jump in the sack for fifteen minutes of fame.
Who is this person?
Another consideration in kissing on the first date and/or sex, is who are you with? Do you know this person and do you really like this person? Is this someone that you want to spend time with or are you looking for something else? Do you need someone to listen to you, or love you and instead of seeking the right thing you turn to sex. This is a very common issue, people are looking for something and are not sure what it is, so they turn to physical satisfaction. If this person is not someone that you can see yourself with past tonight, you may want to take the relationship a little slower.
Go for it
Of course most people are going to say that kissing on the first date is completely different than sex on the first date. Since there is not a dating code or law it is hard to know whether or not if you should. A simple kiss shouldnt be a big deal, right? Well, to most people it is not a big deal, but there are those that take it very seriously. Everyone is different so what may be a minor kiss, may be a true life changing event to them, so this is something that you have to decide. Most people would agree, however that if you are attracted, feel a connection and are interested go for a kiss on the first date. If not and you are not sure about the person, play it by ear, go out with them again to see where it leads.
Do what is right for you.
Do not get too wound up in what others think or what is right for them. Everyone is different and just because someone has an opinion does not make it right. So you do what feels right for you and quit worrying about everyone else. Have a positive dating relationship and consider yourself, no one else!
By: Lee Blackspur
About the Author:
Lee Blackspur is the owner of http://www.My-Dating-Advice.com which provides free online and offline dating tips, advice and articles for men, women and teens of all ages and experience.
Cuthbert
Speed Dating for Beginners
Dating is not an easy thing for a lot of people. When you are out there trying to be sure that you are getting all that you can from this one deal you can see that you have to work it all out and make the right change.
We have to be sure that we are going to get all that is positive in this notion because of the fact that you have to work the deals in the right way. More and more people are going to be placing the finest positions on those items and concepts that allow for them to get things done faster and without all the problems that will normally come about.
Through this whole process they are going to have to spend some time working it out and then managing the position as it goes along. That is the best idea for the people to make a change in the way that things are done from that point forward.
We all want to have the most positive dating experience ever and speed dating is one of those times. With speed dating you are getting all that you need from the dating experience without all the hassle that you normally would find. This is something that is going to be positive because of the fact that you have the choices that you need without having to worry about the long drawn out dating process.
We can see that we are getting all that is positive from this deal by simply working to make a change in the way that things are done. We need to be sure that we are working it all out and then moving forward to be positive in the notion that we have it all in line.
Several Dates
The idea of speed dating is very simple. You can see that you are going to have several dates all at one time. In doing so you are going to have the choices that you need. This is going to help you make a change in the way that you are working with the deals because of the fact that you have the best overall situation in the world.
When you are working with the deals that are helping you become the finest of all people you can see that speed dating is going to save you a lot of time and energy that you would normally have to expel. This will put fourth the best effort for you as you are making the change and so on.
Privacy
Then you have the privacy of speed dating. All in all you are getting the best of the best from the speed dating process because you do not have to reveal the personal details of your life to anyone.
You are allowed to choose who you want and when you want to meet them. This is going to be a place where you are allowed to make a choice that is more appealing. That is also the time to move forward with the entire process and make a better change for the dating experience that you hav
By: Michael
About the Author:
We have to be sure that we are going to get all that is positive in this notion because of the fact that you have to work the deals in the right way. More and more people are going to be placing the finest positions on those items and concepts that allow for them to get things done faster and without all the problems that will normally come about.
Through this whole process they are going to have to spend some time working it out and then managing the position as it goes along. That is the best idea for the people to make a change in the way that things are done from that point forward.
We all want to have the most positive dating experience ever and speed dating is one of those times. With speed dating you are getting all that you need from the dating experience without all the hassle that you normally would find. This is something that is going to be positive because of the fact that you have the choices that you need without having to worry about the long drawn out dating process.
We can see that we are getting all that is positive from this deal by simply working to make a change in the way that things are done. We need to be sure that we are working it all out and then moving forward to be positive in the notion that we have it all in line.
Several Dates
The idea of speed dating is very simple. You can see that you are going to have several dates all at one time. In doing so you are going to have the choices that you need. This is going to help you make a change in the way that you are working with the deals because of the fact that you have the best overall situation in the world.
When you are working with the deals that are helping you become the finest of all people you can see that speed dating is going to save you a lot of time and energy that you would normally have to expel. This will put fourth the best effort for you as you are making the change and so on.
Privacy
Then you have the privacy of speed dating. All in all you are getting the best of the best from the speed dating process because you do not have to reveal the personal details of your life to anyone.
You are allowed to choose who you want and when you want to meet them. This is going to be a place where you are allowed to make a choice that is more appealing. That is also the time to move forward with the entire process and make a better change for the dating experience that you hav
By: Michael
About the Author:
Alban
How a Professional Dating Coach Will Help You Design Your Online Dating Profile
Online Personal Ads, the method of choice for singles to meet since the dawn of the computer age in the 1980’s, have paved the way for today’s 21st century dating sites. One of the greatest contributions of online dating has been its popularity and success among all classes of people, thereby offering both the means and the opportunity for anyone to fall in love.
Accompanying all of the new options for online dating, a new hero has emerged in the form of the Online Dating Coach. If you’re lucky enough to find this type of practitioner, you’ll be rewarded with a combination of psychologist, social worker, and marketing strategist – all rolled up into one!
When you hire a professional Dating Coach, he or she will help you determine the type of partner you’re seeking. Your dating coach will guide you in completing all of the Online Dating questionnaires and help you develop your Dating Profile.
You’ll be interviewed by phone during an initial one or two-hour consultation, and during this coaching call you’ll be asked about your dating history and the qualities you’re seeking in a partner. There are thousands of possibilities waiting for you, so one of the first goals is to define what you’re seeking. Do you want to meet singles for fun on the weekends, or are you looking for something more serious? With all of the information that results from this call, along with your interests and your preferred type of relationship, your dating coach will create a success strategy for you to get started.
Your Dating Profile is the interface between you and the other site members, so it’s important that it be designed properly. Your profile is critical in helping you meet the prospects with whom you’ll be happy. So working with your Dating Coach, you’ll have the opportunity to explore your values, your goals – and your non-negotiables too. Your next relationship may last for many years (and perhaps forever) so your dating coach will need your input and attention. He will help you create a dating profile that stands out and captures the minds and the hearts of your matches.
Your Online Dating Profile is, in some ways, an expanded version of a Personal Ad from a magazine or newspaper. It describes your background, your education, your family ties and more – and articulates your core beliefs about dating. A creatively designed Online Dating Profile can make a huge difference in the matches you’ll end up meeting. So love it or not, working on your Dating Profile is the most important first step in getting started.
Some of my clients have told me that designing their profile was in some ways like being in a classroom. But virtually all of them thanked me once the profile was complete and dozens of potential Soulmates started emailing their introductions!
There is both an art and a science to designing a dating profile, and in many ways, it’s like a full-page advertisement. There’s a headline at the top, an introductory paragraph that follows, and several lists of “benefits” and “features.” Are you romantic and do you dream about meeting your next love at the top of the Eifel Tower? Or are you pragmatic and grounded, and instead see yourself as a gardener of life growing flowers?
You’ll only have a second to make a first impression, and your Dating Coach knows this too, without question. So put your faith in him and take a risk in opening your heart to someone who may start out as a stranger. Before you know it, you’ll be talking on the phone and then meeting for a cup of coffee!
Your coach will walk you through the steps in meeting your matches, knowing one of them may end up making your heart sing. This is a proven process, using modern technology with a twist of some old world wisdom. Your dating coach knows the recipe and will prepare you for the day when you’ll be walking down the aisle with your Soulmate!
By: The Online Dating Coach
Accompanying all of the new options for online dating, a new hero has emerged in the form of the Online Dating Coach. If you’re lucky enough to find this type of practitioner, you’ll be rewarded with a combination of psychologist, social worker, and marketing strategist – all rolled up into one!
When you hire a professional Dating Coach, he or she will help you determine the type of partner you’re seeking. Your dating coach will guide you in completing all of the Online Dating questionnaires and help you develop your Dating Profile.
You’ll be interviewed by phone during an initial one or two-hour consultation, and during this coaching call you’ll be asked about your dating history and the qualities you’re seeking in a partner. There are thousands of possibilities waiting for you, so one of the first goals is to define what you’re seeking. Do you want to meet singles for fun on the weekends, or are you looking for something more serious? With all of the information that results from this call, along with your interests and your preferred type of relationship, your dating coach will create a success strategy for you to get started.
Your Dating Profile is the interface between you and the other site members, so it’s important that it be designed properly. Your profile is critical in helping you meet the prospects with whom you’ll be happy. So working with your Dating Coach, you’ll have the opportunity to explore your values, your goals – and your non-negotiables too. Your next relationship may last for many years (and perhaps forever) so your dating coach will need your input and attention. He will help you create a dating profile that stands out and captures the minds and the hearts of your matches.
Your Online Dating Profile is, in some ways, an expanded version of a Personal Ad from a magazine or newspaper. It describes your background, your education, your family ties and more – and articulates your core beliefs about dating. A creatively designed Online Dating Profile can make a huge difference in the matches you’ll end up meeting. So love it or not, working on your Dating Profile is the most important first step in getting started.
Some of my clients have told me that designing their profile was in some ways like being in a classroom. But virtually all of them thanked me once the profile was complete and dozens of potential Soulmates started emailing their introductions!
There is both an art and a science to designing a dating profile, and in many ways, it’s like a full-page advertisement. There’s a headline at the top, an introductory paragraph that follows, and several lists of “benefits” and “features.” Are you romantic and do you dream about meeting your next love at the top of the Eifel Tower? Or are you pragmatic and grounded, and instead see yourself as a gardener of life growing flowers?
You’ll only have a second to make a first impression, and your Dating Coach knows this too, without question. So put your faith in him and take a risk in opening your heart to someone who may start out as a stranger. Before you know it, you’ll be talking on the phone and then meeting for a cup of coffee!
Your coach will walk you through the steps in meeting your matches, knowing one of them may end up making your heart sing. This is a proven process, using modern technology with a twist of some old world wisdom. Your dating coach knows the recipe and will prepare you for the day when you’ll be walking down the aisle with your Soulmate!
By: The Online Dating Coach
Tips to Writing a Great Online Dating Profile
If you are new to online dating one of the most important parts of the process will be to write your profile. Even if you are not new to online dating, you may have found that your online profile is not doing its job.
The job of your profile is to let people know who you are, what you are about, what your dislikes and likes are, and what you are looking for from your online dating experience. If you have found that you are constantly getting responses from people who do not meet your needs or wants in a partner, you may need to revise your profile. If you are just starting out you will find that you can write a very effective profile.
Your online dating profile is your self marketing tool. If you write a good profile you are going to attract the kind of people that you want to meet. If you don’t write it well and take your time you may get no responses or you may just get responses from all the wrong people.
One of the best tips that you can be given when you are setting up your online dating profile is to take your time. You have waited this long to get started, a few more hours or days until you can get your profile exactly the way you want it will not kill you. The key is to take your time writing a very concise and honest profile. If you rush through it, it won’t be as well thought out and you may forget a lot of important points.
When you write your profile make sure that you use good grammar and that you present yourself well. Stay positive, even when you are talking about what you don’t want to find online. When you stay positive it makes you more attractive. Negative people are a dime a dozen and this will turn readers of your profile off.
Be very clear about what you want. Being positive doesn’t mean you can express what you want from a friend or romantic interest. When you are very clear you will let people know from the outset what your expectations are and people who do not feel the same need not get in contact with you. It will save you a lot of time down the road if you are honest and straight forward about what you want, though you should always try to put as positive a spin on it as possible!
Try to write more about the things that you are interested in than the things that you are not. Many people will spend and exhausting amount of time saying what they don’t like to do rather than focusing on what you do like to do. Talk about your hobbies, your goals, and your plans as this will help you attract people who have similar goals.
By: Rodrigo Rehn
About the Author:
The job of your profile is to let people know who you are, what you are about, what your dislikes and likes are, and what you are looking for from your online dating experience. If you have found that you are constantly getting responses from people who do not meet your needs or wants in a partner, you may need to revise your profile. If you are just starting out you will find that you can write a very effective profile.
Your online dating profile is your self marketing tool. If you write a good profile you are going to attract the kind of people that you want to meet. If you don’t write it well and take your time you may get no responses or you may just get responses from all the wrong people.
One of the best tips that you can be given when you are setting up your online dating profile is to take your time. You have waited this long to get started, a few more hours or days until you can get your profile exactly the way you want it will not kill you. The key is to take your time writing a very concise and honest profile. If you rush through it, it won’t be as well thought out and you may forget a lot of important points.
When you write your profile make sure that you use good grammar and that you present yourself well. Stay positive, even when you are talking about what you don’t want to find online. When you stay positive it makes you more attractive. Negative people are a dime a dozen and this will turn readers of your profile off.
Be very clear about what you want. Being positive doesn’t mean you can express what you want from a friend or romantic interest. When you are very clear you will let people know from the outset what your expectations are and people who do not feel the same need not get in contact with you. It will save you a lot of time down the road if you are honest and straight forward about what you want, though you should always try to put as positive a spin on it as possible!
Try to write more about the things that you are interested in than the things that you are not. Many people will spend and exhausting amount of time saying what they don’t like to do rather than focusing on what you do like to do. Talk about your hobbies, your goals, and your plans as this will help you attract people who have similar goals.
By: Rodrigo Rehn
About the Author:
Rodrigo Rehn is a Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance online dating services.
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Queensland’s Sunshine Coast – Singles, Dating, a Family Retreat, Chat to the Locals.your Choice!
Queensland’s Sunshine Coast represents a flawless location for a fresh start whether you’re single, bringing up a family, or for a memorable vacation. The Sunshine Coast is situated 100 kilometers due north of Brisbane and occupies loads of gorgeous beaches unfolding from Caloundra to Noosa Heads.
Caloundra, a population of circa 70, 000 is where the Sunshine Coast commences and hosts the 1st surf boarding beaches due north of Brisbane. Caloundra has long-term been considered as a sleepy fishing small town over the years which has developed into an active holiday maker hot spot and has under gone a skyline transformation into beach front elegant apartments, coffeehouses and restaurants, whilst nevertheless keeping up its unstrained and hospitable atmosphere. Caloundra is a complete family resettlement location or vacation destination. There are many singles opportunities in Caloundra for those in the singles and dating scene, as Caloundra sees many new singles from the southern states re-locate here for a peaceful yet vibrant new beginning. Suss out a few of the neat watering holes and nightclubs.
Kings Beach Tavern: Fixed towering on the hill facing Kings Beach, it experiences live bands on a regular basis and a youthful vivacious patronage and constitutes a perfect locale for a relaxed no fuss Sunday PM session.
C Box: situated in Bulcock St Caloundra comprises of an up market local saloon surround providing punting, outstanding food and a beer garden that is perched right upon the main street of Caloundra.
Tonic Lounge: Opens up late after-hours on weekend nighttimes. Once indoors this absolute stylish nightspot provides the equivalent ambience as any groovy Sydney or Brisbane club. The Tonic Lounge draws in favourite worldwide DJs providing the absolute finest in house/dance tunes and is haunted by young revelers who enjoy night clubbing.
Caloundra genuinely does provide a large combination of chances for singles to get among the action or to unwind and absorb the subdued aura.
Mooloolaba comprises the next main draw card coastal suburb placed 20 minutes drive northwards of Caloundra. For those who haven’t travelled to Mooloolaba, the Mooloolaba beach esplanade is arguably among the most sensational anyplace in Australia. It stretches for approximately one kilometre comprising of coffee shops, saloons, nightspots, eating houses, specialty stores and beach front rental accommodation. This postal card flawless position has to be experienced to be believed. Come vacation time of year Mooloolaba is full of holidaymakers, so if you plan to travel to this location, reserve your spot early. Non vacation time of year finds Mooloolaba patronised by numerous young locals occupying the nightspots and saloons.
There is too many another bars and nightspots to provide detailed appraisals for singles, therefore simply head down to the main drag during a Friday or Saturday night and get unhinged
Noosa Heads is situated an additional 45 kilometres due north and is a worldwide renowned holidaymaker magnet. Hastings Street is the main hub and depicts a stylish, privileged, upscale look and feel. Noosa Heads has built up into a holidaymaker mecca with its economic system to a great extent banking on visitors to occupy the monumental quantities of holiday accommodation. Noosa is well-known for its exciting watercourses, undiluted beaches and its untouched beauty. Noosa’s instinctive heritage can be basked by strolling peacefully by the Noosa National Park or gliding easily by the shipshape Main Beach foreshore boardwalk.
For singles seeking an adventure, the perfect retreat, or because of dating opportunities, apply this guide to get going. Numerous Internet sites including free internet dating sites also use helpful data for singles who are searching for something fresh and energizing.
By: Mr Online Dating
About the Author:
Caloundra, a population of circa 70, 000 is where the Sunshine Coast commences and hosts the 1st surf boarding beaches due north of Brisbane. Caloundra has long-term been considered as a sleepy fishing small town over the years which has developed into an active holiday maker hot spot and has under gone a skyline transformation into beach front elegant apartments, coffeehouses and restaurants, whilst nevertheless keeping up its unstrained and hospitable atmosphere. Caloundra is a complete family resettlement location or vacation destination. There are many singles opportunities in Caloundra for those in the singles and dating scene, as Caloundra sees many new singles from the southern states re-locate here for a peaceful yet vibrant new beginning. Suss out a few of the neat watering holes and nightclubs.
Kings Beach Tavern: Fixed towering on the hill facing Kings Beach, it experiences live bands on a regular basis and a youthful vivacious patronage and constitutes a perfect locale for a relaxed no fuss Sunday PM session.
C Box: situated in Bulcock St Caloundra comprises of an up market local saloon surround providing punting, outstanding food and a beer garden that is perched right upon the main street of Caloundra.
Tonic Lounge: Opens up late after-hours on weekend nighttimes. Once indoors this absolute stylish nightspot provides the equivalent ambience as any groovy Sydney or Brisbane club. The Tonic Lounge draws in favourite worldwide DJs providing the absolute finest in house/dance tunes and is haunted by young revelers who enjoy night clubbing.
Caloundra genuinely does provide a large combination of chances for singles to get among the action or to unwind and absorb the subdued aura.
Mooloolaba comprises the next main draw card coastal suburb placed 20 minutes drive northwards of Caloundra. For those who haven’t travelled to Mooloolaba, the Mooloolaba beach esplanade is arguably among the most sensational anyplace in Australia. It stretches for approximately one kilometre comprising of coffee shops, saloons, nightspots, eating houses, specialty stores and beach front rental accommodation. This postal card flawless position has to be experienced to be believed. Come vacation time of year Mooloolaba is full of holidaymakers, so if you plan to travel to this location, reserve your spot early. Non vacation time of year finds Mooloolaba patronised by numerous young locals occupying the nightspots and saloons.
There is too many another bars and nightspots to provide detailed appraisals for singles, therefore simply head down to the main drag during a Friday or Saturday night and get unhinged
Noosa Heads is situated an additional 45 kilometres due north and is a worldwide renowned holidaymaker magnet. Hastings Street is the main hub and depicts a stylish, privileged, upscale look and feel. Noosa Heads has built up into a holidaymaker mecca with its economic system to a great extent banking on visitors to occupy the monumental quantities of holiday accommodation. Noosa is well-known for its exciting watercourses, undiluted beaches and its untouched beauty. Noosa’s instinctive heritage can be basked by strolling peacefully by the Noosa National Park or gliding easily by the shipshape Main Beach foreshore boardwalk.
For singles seeking an adventure, the perfect retreat, or because of dating opportunities, apply this guide to get going. Numerous Internet sites including free internet dating sites also use helpful data for singles who are searching for something fresh and energizing.
By: Mr Online Dating
About the Author:
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What Kind of Questions Should You be Asking Your Online Date
Online dating can be a little confusing for some people. You are unsure of the etiquette and how to proceed with your online relationship. There are some specific questions you will want to ask your new friend. These questions will let you figure out if this is a person you want to pursue a relationship with.
Be sure when you are asking these questions that they come off as purely natural questions. You don’t want to sound like you are conducting an interrogation. You should make sure that you could answer the questions as well. The person you are asking might ask you the same thing.
A great question to ask a person you are dating online is what they believe is some of the mistakes others make when dating online. This question will clearly show the person’s view on dating and the opposite sex. What immediately comes out of their mouth will show you how they view dating in general.
Of course, you should try to find out what they are looking for. Ask them straight out. The person should be able to give you an answer on this subject. Chances are they have thought about it, but you want to be sure of that before you begin a relationship. If they haven’t given any thought to what they are looking for, how can you be sure if you are that person.
Ask them what they think makes a successful relationship. If they can only answer with the things they don’t think make a successful relationship then they have not given this one enough thought. They should understand that people will continue to grow and change during a relationship and the two should be able to grow together. If someone doesn’t understand this point then they may not be able to grow with you.
How do they view online dating services? You can find out a lot about someone’s negative experiences with this question. Or maybe you will find out that they had some positive dating experiences. You will also find out if the person will take an online relationship seriously.
Finally, ask the tough question. Did they fail at their last relationship? This will let you know if they are willing to take responsibility for their part in their last relationship failure. If they automatically blame the other person then they are not willing to acknowledge the part that they played.
These questions should give you a clear picture of the person you are involved with online. Use them wisely and you will know whether or not to pursue a relationship.
By: Ayesha Khakwani
About the Author:
Be sure when you are asking these questions that they come off as purely natural questions. You don’t want to sound like you are conducting an interrogation. You should make sure that you could answer the questions as well. The person you are asking might ask you the same thing.
A great question to ask a person you are dating online is what they believe is some of the mistakes others make when dating online. This question will clearly show the person’s view on dating and the opposite sex. What immediately comes out of their mouth will show you how they view dating in general.
Of course, you should try to find out what they are looking for. Ask them straight out. The person should be able to give you an answer on this subject. Chances are they have thought about it, but you want to be sure of that before you begin a relationship. If they haven’t given any thought to what they are looking for, how can you be sure if you are that person.
Ask them what they think makes a successful relationship. If they can only answer with the things they don’t think make a successful relationship then they have not given this one enough thought. They should understand that people will continue to grow and change during a relationship and the two should be able to grow together. If someone doesn’t understand this point then they may not be able to grow with you.
How do they view online dating services? You can find out a lot about someone’s negative experiences with this question. Or maybe you will find out that they had some positive dating experiences. You will also find out if the person will take an online relationship seriously.
Finally, ask the tough question. Did they fail at their last relationship? This will let you know if they are willing to take responsibility for their part in their last relationship failure. If they automatically blame the other person then they are not willing to acknowledge the part that they played.
These questions should give you a clear picture of the person you are involved with online. Use them wisely and you will know whether or not to pursue a relationship.
By: Ayesha Khakwani
About the Author:
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